BY: PRATHAM GOLCHA
While feeling emotions, especially those of the past, which encompasses memories, antecedents, etc., we feel a sense of longing of all that has transpired and happened. The nature of the emotions may vary, good or bad. That ‘nostalgia’, as its termed in the common parlance, is a powerful emotion that influences and shapes our mental well-being, feelings, and thinking patterns. Its psychology dives into the delicate ways in which we revisit cherished memories, that for obviously natural reasons, has a profound impact on our emotions and minds. A fair understanding of its effects on mental well-being can not only prove beneficial for one’s own self, but also provide gainful insights into coping mechanisms, human experiences which are unique to every individual, as well as dimensions of personal growth. Nostalgia serve a vital function in psychology. It isn’t just longing for the days that have gone by, rather, they offer individuals to experience a barrage of positive emotions too through insightful reflections. This very emotional pump can help act as a shield against anxiety, depression, stress, to name a few, contributing in a significant manner to the overall mental well-being of an individual. Not only is it limited to the aforementioned, but nostalgia, according to various studies of psychologists, provides a sense of continuity in one’s life, offering a chance to dig deeper within one’s reserves and reflect on the coherency of life, as a whole.A revisit of the past experiences allows individuals to pick out the positive aspects of their life and of them as social beings, thereby enhancing self-esteem. A positive self-image of the person is developed as a result of reminiscing of the lasting relationships, personal achievements, etc. A reinforcement of self-affirmation also takes place that enhances a healthy mental state for an individual by acting as a buffer against the feelings of self-doubt, inadequacy, self-pity, past trauma, etc. Interpersonal relationships are unique and novel to every individual, and hence, nostalgia has this exceptional ability to develop social connectedness. For any bond or relationship that the individual is attached to, shared memories are the very foundational basis, which crystallize into a nuanced social connectedness order through nostalgia. Let us take a very basic example of a mother and a child. A child living in a different city for studies would naturally feel homesick initially. A sense of nostalgia herein, with respect to the bond that he/she shared with the parents, friends, relatives, can act as a shield against depression and anxiety, perhaps. Nothing can be seen in black and white terms, for sure, but then surely a deep connect is a natural disposition for humans. This is exactly where nostalgia can kick in. Now, everything, right from the food that the child eats in that distant city, to the clothes that he/she would wear, would in some form transport him/her to the nostalgia of home. During challenging times, where negative emotions can often take center-stage, this aspect of nostalgia aids to a support network which can be instrumental and detrimental in maintaining mental well-being and stability.Quite evidentially, we all know that the underlying nostalgia attached cannot be universally positive always. In quite a few cases, it can elicit feelings of melancholy or longing for a past which remains incoherent with the current times. Emotions of sadness, anger, jealousy, hatred, etc. cannot be ruled out too. Humans have this innate habit of thinking about the past, sometimes, excessively, which may leads to dwelling, stagnating and brooding over events or people. This bittersweet aspect of nostalgia can have varying impacts on individuals, as far as mental health and well-being are concerned. A concerted effort to try and strike a balance between appreciating nostalgic emotions and being in the present is absolutely critical for marinating a healthy mental well-being and balance for an individual. Not only does the psychological impact of nostalgia apply to only individuals, but also to societal aspects and elements, such as societies and communities that we as social animals live in. Shared traditions, values, beliefs, norms, cultural conformations, etc. can foster a sense of unity and continuity, which may lead to social cohesion and well-being. Moreover, nostalgic reflections may provide a go-to breathing space for individuals who may turn to them to drive away from the complexities and difficulties of modern life. The sense of familiarity, comfort, association, pleasantness may provide some solace from the uncertainties of the present, acting as a shield from the arrows of change. There are quite a few ways and means by which individuals can harness and adopt intentional practices of nostalgia for mental well-being and development. Creating a playlist of one’s favorite songs, photo albums, letters or messages may allow room for past nostalgic memories. In dealing with stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, etc. transforming nostalgic reflections and interpretations into therapeutic practices might go a long way in an individual’s quest for mental well-being. The psychological impact of nostalgia can be termed as a mixed bag. While it can act as a source of positive emotions, social connectedness and self-esteem on one hand, on the other it might pose difficulties when individuals become fixated on the past excessively. Again, there is nothing absolute in black and white. An intricate and delicate interplay between emotions, memories and well-being can be detrimental for any individual and have significant implications on the psyche. It all depends on us how we perceive nostalgia to be, whether a past baggage or a present gift to cherish.